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Ownership has nothing to do 24 7 bdsm force. Communication works both ways. Hint: dominants can and do apologize when they fuck up. But at the same time, if the dominant is too keen on setting a fast pace and the submissive balks, then perhaps all is as it should be. I fear he will allow fantasy to become reality for the sake of sexual gratification and it will take precedence over our loving relationship.

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Owning someone is not something that happens overnight. You are not extending your wank fantasies into your everyday reality; you will not be aroused at all times. Anything that erodes trust will erode the relationship, and rightly so.

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